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Things to say on dating sites

It is also worth noting that most often discuss this from the point of view of a man contacting a woman, since that was my experience, but my hope is that the thoughts here are helpful to anyone.

Mailshots Some people think it’s worth sending a message to every match they receive regardless of whether they’re genuinely interested.

The researchers carried out an ambitious analysis of 167,276 first-contact messages sent by 3,657 users.

The results suggest that the likelihood of a first message receiving a response depends on several factors: of a first-contact message on a dating site, is it better to play it cool and not show too much initial interest, and make the message sender wait a while for a reply?

Once you’ve written a message, read it back and make sure there’s something in there that shows it’s meant especially for the person you’re contacting.