Start Dealing dating older man

Dealing dating older man

When the allure of dating someone new wears off, it’s important to accept your partner for the person that you met – even if they are 20 years your senior.

Realizing your new boyfriend is just a few years younger than your father is a harsh reality.

Remind yourself what ignited this initial attraction and focus on that.

After all, there is something innately sexy about a silver fox.

He inevitably has a few years on you – professionally and personally.

You may need to start skipping the traditional Thursday through Sunday bar scene with the girls to appease his lifestyle.

While this may seem like a much-needed break, there is potential for you to end up at a home-dinner party socializing with a group that may tell you about their son or daughter that is “just about your age.” Awkward. Dating someone 20 to 30 years older than you means you’re probably going to see time take its toll in many ways.

You might love his deep pockets, but with his great power comes your vulnerability.

There is potential that you could never be financially equal to him, accepting this is key.

If he encourages you to do this before you’re ready, you will forever resent him for what you missed out on.

Every time you go to a restaurant, the staff will glare at you both — him for being shallow and you for being a gold digger.

You will probably need to be prepared to be lower on his list of priorities sometimes, even if his children are grown up. If he doesn’t, are you prepared to sacrifice your desire for children to find love?


 
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14-Sep-2016 15:25